I'm somebody's Valentine!

Isn't this lovely?  It is a 1982 Westmoreland Glass Jack-in-the-Pulpit vase with hand painted roses; and it is signed and dated.  And it is mine!

While I was in my shop the other day, my buddy, Randy, came along: "Here I am again, showing up like a bad penny!  Will you be my Valentine even though I'm a day late?"

"Of course I will!" I replied.  Randy is a guy who stops by and chats with me every time he comes to the flea market.  This man is a treasure trove of trivia and is very interesting to talk to.  He knows a little bit about all kinds of things and I learn something new every time we chat.  This time he is holding a bag of something as he sits down in my extra chair.

Even though he is past retirement age, Randy is still working just for the heck of it.  He is a local mechanic and on the side, he buys, rebuilds and sells some of the great old cars from the past.  And if that isn't enough, he haunts all the outdoor flea markets and yard sales and comes up with some of the most unique finds you can imagine from ruby glass which he loves, to jewelry, to all kinds of unusual decorative items.

Randy is a real free spirit and he makes lots of friends wherever he goes.  I bet he's been all over the country at one time or another.  I think he was married once upon a time...  Now he lives in harmony with his brother and sister on some land with a house where each have their own space.

Randy gives away much of what he buys.  He will see something he likes, bargains the price down and buys it.  Then he will often come to my shop and show me what his latest find is.  He knows I am interested in these beautiful vintage or antique oddities.  "You know, I think C----- would like this.  I think I'll give it to her for her birthday."  Or, "My sister will like this...  I'll shine it up and give it to her and surprise her."

One meets so many interesting people in a flea market.  From vendors to customers to lookers...  All you need is to make sure you place an extra chair in your shop so folks can sit down and relax for a few minutes.  You just need to be inviting and let them know they are welcome to stay a while.  I have people who come back again and again just to sit awhile and have someone listen to them... lonely people, hurting people among them.

So today, Randy has come to surprise ME and to give ME a present!  He opens up the bag and hands me my gift.  What a delight!  It is a gorgeous vase and the hand painted roses are perfect!  It is surely from his ruby glass collection.  Yes, indeed, "I am happy to be your Valentine..." and I give him a big hug!

Perplexed, Bothered and Bewildered!

I'm not sure what's going on sometimes.  I'm not seeing everything.  I'm not hearing everything.  I looked up the word, "perplexed" and discovered this picture.  It appealed to me immediately!

Look at the frown she has...  It reminded me of something from the past:  "Turn a frown upside down."  This was the original motto of a group of parents, of which I was one... who set up an organization to help parents of children with cancer.  Back in the early 1970's, this group of parents were meeting monthly to support each other in dealing with their children's dreadful diagnosis and to help those whose children had died.  At some point these parents, with the encouragement of the physicians at the local teaching hospital who cared for these children, decided to raise funds to assist other families and to aid the continuing research to find a cure for childhood cancer.  My husband became the first president of this new group.

As the years have gone by, the small organization we parents started has become a successful foundation.  I am amazed at its growth.  It has been able to branch out in many directions.  Ideas that were just dreams for us have become realities.  The focus of the group changed a bit over the years because increasingly, children with cancer and leukemia were living much longer and many have apparently been cured.  This is great news, for in the early days, a diagnosis of childhood cancer was a death sentence.  So today, for many many families, the frown has turned upside down.

It has been a long time since I was part of this organization.  After spending many years as part of a pediatric cancer team, counselling the families of these children, playing with these children and of being present to parents during long nights as they watched their children go through the final stages of their disease, it became time to move on...  

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My goodness, it is interesting what direction this blog article took.  This is not what I intended to write about.  But guess what?  Don't you know that turning a frown upside down makes it a SMILE!     




Image: "Perplexed" by Vida Khadem, 2008

Looking for a Positive New Year's Resolution?

How about this one!  We tend to forget the good things that happen!  I've got a little jar all ready!

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The Joy of Reading

I have this thing about books... I love to read!  But, how in the world have I been able to read 61 books this year!  More than any other year of my adult life.

Well, I have had a lot of down time this year.  Business was very slow at the shop (the recession has finally hit the flea markets too, which is really drastic)... so, that meant less funds to buy inventory to place in the shop.  I had to make do with what I had already or with what friends who were downsizing gave me.

Since I didn't have to deal with a lot of inventory, I had more time to read.  Because I have a bookshop as part of my space, I have a ready supply of books to choose from.  My cup runneth over!

My books come to me in different ways: I buy them, or I give a customer 1 free book for 3 of theirs, or kind and generous people leave bags of books in my shop.  Often I have no idea who have given me these books; but you can be sure that I am truly grateful for them.

I believe people appreciate a friendly vendor and keep coming back to buy from them; and think of them when they are in the process of downsizing, whether they be books or collectibles.  I am always happy when one of my customers comes by and asks, "Do you think you can use any of this stuff?"  I always say yes... and tell them that if I cannot use something, I will take it to the local Goodwill store.

Anyhow, as I was thinking about my books, I was also recalling paintings that I have seen with reading books as the focal point.  Here are some of what I found...  I hope you enjoy looking at them.  I think they are beautiful, especially the "Lady in Brown" by Chase.      

"Lady in Brown" - William Merritt Chase (1849-1916)

no title given - Helen Maria Turner (1858-1958)

"A Girl Reading Indoors" - Vanessa Bell (1879-1961)

"Girl with Book" - Bartholomeus Van der Helst (1613-1670)

"Miss Auras" - John Lavery (1856-1941)

"Alice in Wonderland" - George Dunlop Leslie (1835-1921)

"Woman Reading" - Pablo Picasso (1881-1973)

"Good Book" - Laura Fatta

"Woman Reading" - Peter Worsley (1929-)

"Girl Reading" - George Cochran Lambdin (1830-1896) 

"In the Garden Reading" - Mary Cassatt (1844-1926)

Rembrandt's Mother - Gerard Dou

Advent at St. E's

For the past several years, my parish places a bare tree to the right of our sanctuary.  We call it our Jesse Tree though we do not place the normal religious symbols on the tree.  Our idea for our tree is different.  We tie leaves on the tree with the names of people we wish to pray for during Advent.  Here is how we go about it.

One of our parishioners agrees to search for an appropriate tree.  It needs to be a young tree with plenty of branches that people can reach fairly easily, but it can't be too tall or bushy so that it looks tacky.  The tree's trunk needs to fit into a bucket of rocks that hold it in place.  I've provided the rocks and bucket.

Next, someone needs to cut out leaves from construction paper, or as I did this year, buy some garlands of Fall leaves from the craft store.  I simply cut the leaves from the garland and tied ribbon through each one and then stuck a strip of adhesive tape on each leaf so that parishioners could write on it, the names of the people they were holding in prayer this Advent.

Because we are a small parish, I only prepared about 125 of these leaves.  They were placed in a basket on a table in the rear of the church so the hospitality ministers could pass them out as people came in for Mass.  In the days before the First Sunday of Advent, the family that usually decorates the church, set the tree up in the sanctuary.

Last year, we had used construction paper leaves that had the names of children in need of prayer written on them.  We had used the leaves in other ways during the past year so we were hesitant to throw them away.  So, the old leaves were placed on the highest branches of the tree so that those children could continue to be prayed for during this Advent as well.

On the First Sunday of Advent, our priest spoke about the meaning of our tree during his homily and said he had written the names of his elderly parents on his leaf and when he ended his homily, he attached his leaf to the tree.  Our parishioners then left the pews and did the same.  The basket still has unused leaves in it so that parishioners who could not attend the First Sunday will still be able to place their names on the tree when they return.

This prayer for our people has become a meaningful tradition at my parish and I hope it will continue..
   
 

~ Bare Tree II by Norman Wyatt, Jr.

Gospel Choir 21st Anniversary Concert

The Gospel Choir of which I am a long-time member (more than 30 years actually) will hold its 21st Anniversary Concert tomorrow afternoon.  We have rehearsed long for this day.  We have learned three new gospel songs, only one of which we might be able to use again by adapting it.  Most of the music we learn for these concerts cannot be used at Mass.

We have invited several other Gospel choirs to celebrate with us:  The Gospel Voices of Glen Allen - The Maggie L. Walker Alumni Gospel Choir - The Men of Goodwill - Holy Rosary Catholic Church Choir - Redeemed Ministry - Special Guest Musicians - and a Flag Ministry.

Here is the music we have learned:

Our God is an Awesome God

My God is Awesome

Let the Church say "Amen"


I am aware that few of my readers may be interested in this music, but who knows...   At any rate, WE love the music... and are looking forward to a festive afternoon, singing in praise of our awesome God!

The Sound of Music

I was thinking about the sound of music.  How we hear it and how we listen to it can reveal a bit about our relationship with God.

We hear a favorite piece of music and become totally engrossed in it.  Each part, its tune, its words, bring us joy and delight.  Often we have to play or sing it over again.  We can't get enough of it because it has touched our heart and soul.

At other times, we try to listen to the music but because our mind wanders to concerns and issues in our lives, we forget about the music.  The sounds die away and we are no longer conscious of them.

Perhaps most times, we live our lives with background music.  We go about our lives with all our joys and struggles, aware of the lovely tune in the background.  We are comforted by its continuous presence.  The melody keeps calling us and drawing us toward it.

Lord, I think you are this melody.  The music that we love... that engrosses us... that we become immersed in.

And yet, many times we lose track of you... through sin or because we are simply overcome by the struggles of our lives.  We become distracted and thoughts of your love fade away.  That is when we need to be reconciled to you so that we can hear the melody once more.

Hopefully, most of our lives are spent with an awareness of your presence with us.  That as we go about our tasks and deal with the issues and problems in our lives, we trust in and listen to your melody that never ceases.  A melody that brings us joy and comfort.

Lord, allow us to become part of that melody so that we can sing your praises forever.



 ~ Image: Angel playing lute (1506) by Albrecht Dürer